Jordan and Peter 2022.11.29

  • You are not broken.
  • Forge or join a resonate group.
  • Tendency - to want to get whole first...
  • the rate of opening vs. closing loops
  • convening... and then making people feel like they are working on same goal... superpower.
  • The problem -
    • When we get together... we can feel like we are accomplishing something just because we are together...
    • The yin yang balance

OODA and other cycles

  • observe-orient-decide-act
  • plan-do-check-act
  • scan-identify-plan-decide-execute
  • Many that end with learning... / retro to restart the cycle.

Comments

  • No "brave enough" to X...
  • Jordan has loops with each person and can't get us all through all the loops
  • "governance" problem
  • My gut / intuition says ...
    • that the sovereign thing would work
    • in lieu of large scale coordination...
    • it is enough for each Sovereign - to decide what it is going to do.... don't have to worry yet whether and how it "fits"
    • The important thing is that it execute what it believes in effectively...
  • Many people didn't feel part of a 'sovereign' - and didn't know how to start...

It Would Be Nice

  • To have a directory to say here are the things I am working on...
    • Problem - it is hard to describe... what the piece is...
    • Hard enough to describe to a friend...
    • The way through the sovereign thing - is negotiation. small scale.
    • If you have a small sovereign - negotiate with another small sovereign if you can help one another...
    • and trying to do that through a directory is a impossible thing.
  • Negotiation - then agreements
    • especially pair-wise negotiation, at least to start

Non Trivial Point

  • Some individuals are in groups
  • Some are not...
  • Some of my reasonably enlightened friends who get this don't necessarily play well in groups...

Two Problems

  • Getting lost in abstraction
  • Trying to get too many minds around too big of a thing
  • Jordan (or anyone) having individual loops and not being able to bring them together (maybe or maybe not a problem)

Approximate Consensus

  • Jordan in several sovereign autonomous groups doing meaningful things.
  • Prefer groups - where like ithing - I am willing to spend 5 or 10% of time and resources exploring higher coordination.

Lessons From Entrepreneurship

  • Can't say yes to every deal that comes along - have to evaluate the time you spend and relationship in light of resrouces constrains and goals.
  • Learn how to do business development, say no to potential opportunities and yes to the ones that will really advance.
  • Hierarchy of Partnerships
    • Is this potential

Partnership / Deals / Agreements

  • my org can source deals that it wants, rather than just depending on what comes in over the transom

    • actually out hunting and sourcing
  • Defining in advance the decision making criteria / matrix around potential deals

  • evaluating the deal from our org's point of view - do we think this will this be good for us?

  • expressing a potential deal to a partner - what's in it for them? what's in it for us?

  • negotiating terms of the deal

  • executing on the terms of the deal

  • learning and iterating this deal and other deals

  • learning to terminate bad deals

  • "negotiating is maybe a gateway drug to learning the rest of it"

Two Negotiations / Deals / Commitments / Agreements

  • work on building a mind
    • Parts of that
    • This month
  • work on organizing Lionsberg

Next Call - Jordan and Pete

  • Break building a mind and building Lionsberg down into parts... and discuss possible immediate next steps.

Next Call - Lionsberg

  • Make it a social call...

Non-Violent Communication

  • what exactly happened (observation)
  • what you feel about it (feelings)
  • what is important to you (needs)
  • what you might ask someone or yourself to satisfy this need (requests)